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Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person

Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person on HackerTube: recommended by 2 Hacker News commenters across 2 separate months, 2016–2025.

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A School of Life video arguing that everyone marries someone who is somewhat wrong for them, and that this is unavoidable. It is a four-minute version of an essay by Alain de Botton.

Why Hacker News recommends it

HN points to it as the short cliff's-notes version of the essay and as a charming introduction to The School of Life.

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“If you want the cliff's notes, his School of Life channel has a shorter version [1].”
— Nzen, Apr 2025, in “You Wouldn't Download a Hacker News”

What HN commenters said

3 Hacker News comments link this video. Each one links back to its thread.

NzenApr 2025Recommends

Alain de Botton also published this in video form, seven years ago [0]. If you want the cliff's notes, his School of Life channel has a shorter version [1]. [0] [link] 22 minutes [1] ▶ this video 4 minutess

in “You Wouldn't Download a Hacker News” · View on HN

sw00May 2016Recommends

It's the long form of this: ▶ this video The author founded The School of Life - which I think is wonderful.

in “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person” · View on HN

gabrielsrokaJul 2024Cites it

2017 Followup [link] EDIT: I thought his voice sounded familiar: > The School of Life was founded in 2008 by Alain De Botton... [link] also 2014 ▶ this video

in “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person (2016)” · View on HN

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Psychology & human behaviorPhilosophy & ethicsSocial issues & culturethe school of lifemarriagephilosophylovealain de botton